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Might our wounds serve as our launching pads for healthy flight. . .
At a gathering last night we were discussing how emotionally wounded most of us had been at some point on our journey. This led to the realization that most “sufferers” have experienced their woundedness within a very intimate relationship. For some the wound is unhealed. For others, seeing it from […]
Seek the blessing in every gathering. . .
I led a retreat this past week end at the Hazelden Renewal Center in MN. The topic was Cultivating Hope In All Our Affairs. Twenty-eight of us gathered and gently moved forward in our thinking, our personal explorations, our willingness to be intimately vulnerable and open to the vulnerabilities of […]
Solutions to be determined. . .
Detachment is letting the solutions be determined by God. Solutions are seldom simple. Perhaps that’s because they generally involve other people too. When any one of us is certain we have the best solution for any problem or situation confronting us, we have quite naturally chosen one that benefits us, […]
Interdependence is the hallmark of a healthy relationship. . .
Interdependence is the hallmark of a healthy relationship. Getting enmeshed in someone else’s life generally happens when we are feeling in- secure, and uncertain of ourselves. We cling to the “object of our affection,” and then mistakenly think that if we are constantly “in sync,” if we are in agreement […]
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