Stop Focusing on Problems: Seek Solutions Instead. Others watch how we behave. Does it match what we say? Or are we making problems bigger than they are? Alcoholics Anonymous suggests that attraction to their program is more effective than promotion of it. The same holds true for behavior in relationships, doesn’t it? Telling others what they should do in regard to a problem will never be as effective as saying what has worked for us, or showing by our actions what is working now. We can’t change others. Ever. We can’t control opinions, behavio[...]
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