I mentioned in the last blog the joy of reconnecting with Ellen, a friend I had seen very little of since our graduation from high school in Indiana nearly 55 years ago. \u00a0As I write that number, I am absolutely amazed at how quickly time passes, never to be repeated. \u00a0Moment by moment our lives pass us by and then an event occurs that triggers a “look back,” and we’re shocked. \u00a0The reality of who we have become startles us.<\/p>\n
The mini-reunion we had in Chicago last week end provided that “look back” and I remain in a state of shock. \u00a0We felt young yet, or so we claimed. \u00a0For sure we didn’t feel our age nor did most of us look our age either. \u00a0But the minutes had ticked by any way, slipping through our fingers like through a sieve, and the many fond memories of years gone by could only be recounted, not lived again.<\/p>\n
There is some thing very special about reliving fond memories. \u00a0For one, they can be “used” to lessen the hold of a conflict with a friend or family member. \u00a0No one is in charge of what we dwell on but ourselves. \u00a0Making the choice to think another thought rather than the one that is creating inner angst is a great choice to make. \u00a0And one we can practice repeatedly with out announcing to anyone what we are doing.<\/p>\n
The little joys that call to us for a show of appreciation can be as small as a barking dog, a chirping cardinal, that first cup of coffee in the morning with a spouse or a friend, or a child’s whimper to be picked up. \u00a0That note of thanks from a friend that was entirely unexpected deserves our acknowledgment too. When ever we seek to notice the many opportunities for showing signs of appreciation, they will seem to multiply. \u00a0Funny how that works, wouldn’t you say?<\/p>\n
Today, look for the many times you can express appreciation. \u00a0Many will be woven within the tiniest of experiences. \u00a0The more we cultivate within us the willingness to really see<\/strong>, the greater will be our level of joy. \u00a0Sign me up! \u00a0How about you?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" I mentioned in the last blog the joy of reconnecting with Ellen, a friend I had seen very little of since our graduation from high school in Indiana nearly 55 years ago. \u00a0As I write that number, I am absolutely amazed at how quickly time passes, never to be repeated. \u00a0Moment by moment our lives […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[127,159,188],"class_list":["post-764","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-circle-of-family-and-friends-you-and-your-personal-community","tag-joy","tag-passage-of-time","tag-seeing-anew"],"yoast_head":"\n