{"id":3886,"date":"2017-06-07T20:48:44","date_gmt":"2017-06-08T01:48:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.womens-spirituality.com\/?p=3886"},"modified":"2023-02-08T12:36:59","modified_gmt":"2023-02-08T18:36:59","slug":"curve-balls-come-in-spite-of-us","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.womens-spirituality.com\/?p=3886","title":{"rendered":"Curve balls come in spite of us."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s hard to believe, as I hobble around on a cane these days, that I was golfing three times a week, doing yoga twice a week and an exercise class twice a week too, just over a month ago in Naples. Our return to Minnesota for the summer has presented me with unexpected challenges. I knew my hip was going to have to be addressed. I just didn&#8217;t count on the experience I am having now.<\/p>\n<p>Bodies change but\u00a0minds aren&#8217;t always able to adjust to the changes very quickly. Woe is me. I have written in many books that <strong>we are always prepared for any change that comes long<\/strong>. LOL. I&#8217;m not so sure I agree with that now.<\/p>\n<p>The hip surgery is scheduled for next week and I hope to be back to my normal activities soon. Being compromised, as I am, is not pleasant. Curve balls are seldom absorbed very quickly, regardless of their nature, but I honestly do believe they serve a purpose. For one thing, they slow us down. <strong>I need some slowing down<\/strong>. And they just might invite\u00a0us to turn to our Higher Power for acceptance of a situation we simply have no control over. I can never turn to my Higher Power too much.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I was told a long time ago that acceptance is the answer\u00a0to all that troubles me<\/strong>. And having a bum hip is mild compared to the struggles that so many have. I&#8217;m reminded of my friend, Mary, who has an incredibly positive attitude in spite of the fact that her life changed completely following an automobile accident a few years ago. She scurries everywhere in a motorized wheel chair. Without a whimper! What a role model.<\/p>\n<p>Being in an environment where hip surgery is possible, having a husband who is a terrific\u00a0human being and my dog, Nellie, who is like no other adds up to a very sweet life, in spite of the inconvenient\u00a0circumstance of impending surgery. Really, it&#8217;s ridiculous to complain, honestly ridiculous.<\/p>\n<p>I want to get back to the topic of acceptance, however. It really is the ultimate solution for peace of mind. When I remember, regardless of where I am or what&#8217;s going on, that I am ALWAYS in the perfect place at the perfect time and that ALL IS AS IT SHOULD BE, in that moment, I breathe a sigh of relief. I know that whatever is transpiring is what is next on my specific calendar of life events.<\/p>\n<p>Isn&#8217;t it a sweet set of beliefs that guide us when we have decided to travel a spiritual path? I don&#8217;t need to fret. <strong>Ever<\/strong>. I don&#8217;t need to doubt. <strong>Ever<\/strong>. I don&#8217;t need to worry. <strong>Ever<\/strong>. My Higher Power is present to guide me, and comfort me, and remind me that nothing is happening that wasn&#8217;t\u00a0determined long ago\u00a0as specifically necessary to\u00a0my particular journey. All I have to do is &#8220;go along with program.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><strong>You know the same is true for you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s hard to believe, as I hobble around on a cane these days, that I was golfing three times a week, doing yoga twice a week and an exercise class twice a week too, just over a month ago in Naples. 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