{"id":3340,"date":"2014-09-01T16:59:19","date_gmt":"2014-09-01T21:59:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.womens-spirituality.com\/?p=3340"},"modified":"2014-08-05T16:59:46","modified_gmt":"2014-08-05T21:59:46","slug":"shortcuts-to-living-the-peaceful-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.womens-spirituality.com\/?p=3340","title":{"rendered":"Shortcuts to living the peaceful life . ."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>I believe the following to be true:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>1. The Butterfly effect is evident everywhere, all the time.\u00a0 It does not need to be seen or even believed for it to make its mark.<\/p>\n<p>2. We are where we need to be and with whom we need to share that space, every moment.\u00a0 No exceptions.<\/p>\n<p>3.\u00a0Resilience means toughness.\u00a0 Undefeated in spite of difficulties.\u00a0 Being able to stand tall even though the attacks are unrelenting.<\/p>\n<p>4.\u00a0Willingness is the first necessary step to successful completion of any task or goal.<\/p>\n<p>5.\u00a0Laughing over the genuinely funny occurrences in one\u2019s life as well as the more serious ones, makes all circumstances equal in their overall impact.\u00a0 And that\u2019s a good thing.<\/p>\n<p>6. Forgiveness is surely a gift that shifts the entire human community.<\/p>\n<p>7.\u00a0Surrendering allows our fellow travelers to be whoever they choose to be.<\/p>\n<p>8.\u00a0Surrendering actually releases tension. \u00a0 It changes how every circumstance feels.<\/p>\n<p>9 .Vulnerably connecting with others is the only thing that can absolutely heal our ailing souls.<\/p>\n<p>10. We can\u2019t help but recognize love when we see it so freely expressed.<\/p>\n<p>11.\u00a0Putting our differences aside when we love each other benefits the world too.<\/p>\n<p>12.\u00a0Being kind is a choice that can be repeated as many times a day as necessary.<\/p>\n<p>13.\u00a0Don\u2019t be stingy with kindness.\u00a0 Offer it to everyone.<\/p>\n<p>14.\u00a0Detaching from others lets \u201cthem and us\u201d live as we all should live.<\/p>\n<p>15.\u00a0We will find no peace of mind until we free others to live their own lives.<\/p>\n<p>16.\u00a0Being listened to is for many the first step on the path to healing.<\/p>\n<p>17.\u00a0It\u2019s an art that needs constant practice.\u00a0 And it creates its own payoff: intimacy.<\/p>\n<p>18.\u00a0Acceptance is the solution that changes the tenor of every stress-filled moment.<\/p>\n<p>19.\u00a0Acceptance, unfortunately, isn\u2019t a natural response.\u00a0 It requires a decision, then commitment, and lots of practice.<\/p>\n<p>20.\u00a0Not stepping in to take charge unless it\u2019s ours to take is real growth.<\/p>\n<p>21.\u00a0Being controlling can look like being responsible if we aren\u2019t careful.\u00a0 And honest with ourselves.<\/p>\n<p>22.\u00a0We have met by design.\u00a0 Our work here is by design.\u00a0 Our legacy has been determined.<\/p>\n<p>These are only a very few promises I make to you. \u00a0More will be revealed.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I believe the following to be true: 1. The Butterfly effect is evident everywhere, all the time.\u00a0 It does not need to be seen or even believed for it to make its mark. 2. We are where we need to be and with whom we need to share that space, every moment.\u00a0 No exceptions. 3.\u00a0Resilience [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3340","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-karens-musings"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Shortcuts to living the peaceful life . .  | Karen Casey<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.womens-spirituality.com\/?p=3340\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Shortcuts to living the peaceful life . .  | Karen Casey\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"I believe the following to be true: 1. 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