{"id":329,"date":"2010-03-17T14:07:10","date_gmt":"2010-03-17T19:07:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/karencasey.wordpress.com\/?p=329"},"modified":"2010-03-17T14:07:10","modified_gmt":"2010-03-17T19:07:10","slug":"cultivating-hope-is-an-inside-job-but-our-friends-can-help","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.womens-spirituality.com\/?p=329","title":{"rendered":"Cultivating Hope is an inside job but our friends can help. . ."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Happy St. Patrick&#8217;s Day. \u00a0What an appropriate day for me to talk about hope and how it can be cultivated. \u00a0I spent many St. Patty&#8217;s Days in the bars drinking green beer or martinis with their green olives. \u00a0That was a time in my life that I was very short on hope and didn&#8217;t even realize that&#8217;s what was missing. \u00a0I was miserable, for sure, especially when sober, but couldn&#8217;t put a name on the misery. \u00a0However, I was convinced that if only others would change, I&#8217;d be just fine. \u00a0That&#8217;s what sent me off to my first 12 step meeting, in fact.<\/p>\n<p>Alas, that wasn&#8217;t the purpose of the group, they told me. \u00a0Fortunately I stuck around and the hope others had for their own journeys modeled for me a very different way to live, one I was eventually willing to adopt for myself.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s been nearly 35 years since that first meeting back in Minneapolis and I am no longer bereft of hope. \u00a0 On the contrary, I am filled to over-flowing with hope. \u00a0I awake with it and I have learned that if I pass it on to others as the day unfolds, I will go to bed with it too. \u00a0And the next day will repeat this pattern.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size:13.1944px;\"> To know that hopelessness is a thing of the past, an experience that will never haunt me again, is such a gift. \u00a0We do get to be who we want to be. \u00a0We can think how and what we want to. \u00a0We can cultivate the belief that we are where we need to be with the companions who need us as we them. \u00a0I am guided by simple ideas, now. \u00a0They keep me peaceful and willing to serve as a way shower to others. \u00a0My &#8220;inside work&#8221; is the best example I can ever give to another. \u00a0That&#8217;s the only reason we journey together.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>I invite you to read the interview of my book on Cultivating Hope. \u00a0Clink on the link below and see if it&#8217;s a book you&#8217;d like to add to your library. \u00a0All I know is what has been passed on to me from others like you. \u00a0Passing it on is what I do best.<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"http:\/\/themusebookreviews.blogspot.com\/2010\/03\/cultivating-hope-reviewed-by-irene-s.html\" href=\"http:\/\/themusebookreviews.blogspot.com\/2010\/03\/cultivating-hope-reviewed-by-irene-s.html\">http:\/\/themusebookreviews.blogspot.com\/2010\/03\/cultivating-hope-reviewed-by-irene-s.html<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Happy St. Patrick&#8217;s Day. \u00a0What an appropriate day for me to talk about hope and how it can be cultivated. \u00a0I spent many St. Patty&#8217;s Days in the bars drinking green beer or martinis with their green olives. \u00a0That was a time in my life that I was very short on hope and didn&#8217;t even [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[84,179,214],"class_list":["post-329","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-featured","tag-fellow-travelers","tag-relationships","tag-we-are-where-we-need-to-be"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Cultivating Hope is an inside job but our friends can help. . . | Karen Casey<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" 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