{"id":3068,"date":"2013-08-08T19:51:35","date_gmt":"2013-08-09T00:51:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.womens-spirituality.com\/?p=3068"},"modified":"2013-07-25T19:51:58","modified_gmt":"2013-07-26T00:51:58","slug":"hopelessness-is-not-a-mandatory-condition","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.womens-spirituality.com\/?p=3068","title":{"rendered":"Hopelessness is not a mandatory condition. . ."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>WE NEVER NEED TO FEEL HOPELESS. ONE\u2019S HIGHER POWER IS ALWAYS<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>PRESENT.\u00a0<\/b><b>There are innumerable personal situations that can cause creeping hopelessness. You have been diagnosed with a terminal illness with only months to live or a parent dies unexpectedly. Maybe your troubled teenager is on the run again and you feel you have no where to turn. The job you have loved for years suddenly gets cut with no forewarning. Or the boss who always understood your personal struggles and insecurities and willingly worked with you, gets transferred. Or the situation that every one dreads, your relationship partner informs you that he wants to leave the commitment you had believed was life-long.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><\/b><b>It\u2019s easy in any of these cases to fall into despair. And when some one says, \u201cThis too shall pass,\u201d we want to scream. But we never need to feel hopeless. Our Higher Power <\/b><i>is always present. <\/i><b>We want the situation that has caused our pain to change, however. Now. We want the diagnosis to be incorrect. We want the parent to remain alive, indefinitely. We want our child to be safe and asleep in her bedroom. We want the job to not only be secure but we want the promotion we had dreamed about. And we want the \u201clove of our life\u201d to say he or she is in this relationship for the long haul, through think and thin. That\u2019s what seems fair, after all.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><\/b><b>But life has a different way of showing up, doesn\u2019t it? In fact, life shows up as it should. Our lessons are many and intentional. They have not come to us accidentally. We have been part of the selection process whether we know that or not. That\u2019s why <\/b><i>we <\/i><b>never need to feel hopeless. Our Higher Power is and always has been present. Cherishing that as our reality can change the way we see every situation in our life. The difficult ones are designed to stretch us, to help us reach out to others and to God for support, understanding and wisdom. The joyful ones are meant to be shared so that our traveling companions can appreciate that life does give all of us moments free from turmoil.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><\/b><b>The more we trust that our Higher Power will always do for us what we can\u2019t do for ourselves; the more we realize that the many experiences that are calling to us are our \u201cdancing lessons\u201d being paid for by God; the less anxiety we will feel and we will know that we have been prepared for whatever might be next on our agenda. Rest assured. We have been prepared. Nothing happens that hasn\u2019t been divinely ordered. Our lives are never hopeless. We are in the right place, at the right time. Walking with the people who are necessary to our journey. <\/b><i>And our Higher Power is and always has been present. <\/i><b>Even when we were certain we had been forgotten.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><\/b><b>We are lucky people, indeed.\u00a0 Nothing will ever happen in \u201cGod\u2019s world\u201d by accident.\u00a0 Nothing will ever happen that we have not been prepared for.\u00a0 Nothing will ever happen that we don\u2019t need to experience.\u00a0 And nothing will ever happen that doesn\u2019t benefit others as well as us.\u00a0 Being free of all concern and filled with hope in all situations is the gift we were given in the moment of our births.\u00a0 Peace can now be yours always.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>WE NEVER NEED TO FEEL HOPELESS. ONE\u2019S HIGHER POWER IS ALWAYS PRESENT.\u00a0There are innumerable personal situations that can cause creeping hopelessness. 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