{"id":20,"date":"2009-08-13T20:26:54","date_gmt":"2009-08-13T20:26:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/karencasey.wordpress.com\/?p=20"},"modified":"2009-08-13T20:26:54","modified_gmt":"2009-08-13T20:26:54","slug":"being-focused-on-any-one-else","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.womens-spirituality.com\/?p=20","title":{"rendered":"Being focused on any one else . . ."},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"font:12px Helvetica;margin:0;\">Being focused on any one else will prevent us from doing the work we are here to<\/p>\n<p style=\"font:12px Helvetica;margin:0;\">do.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font:12px Helvetica;margin:0;\">It\u2019s far too easy to sit in judgment of others, to criticize them silently or audibly.\u00a0 It has<\/p>\n<p style=\"font:12px Helvetica;margin:0;\">become important to me to remember that every person alive has a very specific jour-<\/p>\n<p style=\"font:12px Helvetica;margin:0;\">ney, one that will intersect mine on occasion; sometimes we will be at cross-purposes,<\/p>\n<p style=\"font:12px Helvetica;margin:0;\">in fact.\u00a0 But the intersection is where the lesson lies for both people.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font:12px Helvetica;margin:0;\">Every one\u2019s activities, and we all have a legion of them, are filled with purpose.\u00a0 And<\/p>\n<p style=\"font:12px Helvetica;margin:0;\">if we are wondering about the purpose of some one\u2019s else\u2019s activities, we are failing to<\/p>\n<p style=\"font:12px Helvetica;margin:0;\">appreciate our own purpose.\u00a0 And maybe our own is not always obvious.\u00a0 In those in-<\/p>\n<p style=\"font:12px Helvetica;margin:0;\">stances, I remember the wise words of a good friend, <strong><em>\u201cWhen in doubt about your <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"font:12px Helvetica;margin:0;\"><strong><em>purpose, speak kindly to the next person you see.\u00a0 That\u2019s fulfilling God\u2019s will in <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"font:12px Helvetica;margin:0;\"><strong><em>that moment.\u201d <\/em><\/strong> This has never failed to bring me comfort.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font:12px Helvetica;margin:0;\">Let\u2019s pay attention to the people around us but that doesn\u2019t mean letting their activi-<\/p>\n<p style=\"font:12px Helvetica;margin:0;\">ties become our primary concern.\u00a0 We share a path to learn from one another.\u00a0 But we<\/p>\n<p style=\"font:12px Helvetica;margin:0;\">aren\u2019t here to judge.\u00a0 Not ever. 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